Our work isn’t about judgment. It’s about helping you understand your desires, navigate challenges, and build healthier, more confident sexual lives.
It’s part of who you are.
sex-positive Counseling for Men in Massachusetts
That’s why we offer sex-positive counseling for men across Massachusetts.
Your sexuality isn’t a problem to fix.
Most men are taught to keep quiet about sex. Don’t talk about it. Don’t ask questions. Don’t admit if something isn’t working. For many, that silence creates shame, confusion, and isolation.
At Mister Health, we take a different approach. We believe sex is a healthy, natural, and powerful part of life—and talking about it shouldn’t feel awkward, shameful, or “dirty.”
What does “sex-positive” mean?
Sex-positive counseling is not about “fixing” you
It’s helping you expand your confidence, connection, and pleasure.
Recognizing that sexual health is part of mental health.
Creating a safe space to explore desires without shame.
Supporting healthy communication around sex and intimacy.
Helping men (single or partnered) align sexuality with their values and goals.
Being sex-positive means approaching sexuality with openness, respect, and curiosity.
Performance Concerns
Worrying about erections, stamina, or confidence.
Why men seek sex-positive counseling
Men reach out for many reasons—some common, some unspoken:
Porn Use & Compulsivity
Wanting to change your relationship with porn without shame.
Shame About Desires
Communication Issues
Difficulty talking about sex with a partner.
Low Desire or Mismatched Desire
Struggling with your own sex drive or feeling out of sync with your partner.
Wondering if what you want is “normal.”
Exploration
Curiosity about kinks, fantasies, or new aspects of sexuality.
Identity Questions
Exploring sexual orientation, masculinity, or what feels authentic.
How sex-positive counseling helps
Through sex-positive counseling at Mister Health, men across Massachusetts learn to:
- Reduce Anxiety: Quiet the performance pressure that kills connection.
- Build Communication Skills: Talk about sex without fear, shame, or conflict.
- Strengthen Intimacy: Reconnect with your partner emotionally and physically.
- Reframe Desire: Understand your sexual wants and values without guilt.
- Explore Safely: Create a framework for exploring fantasies or new experiences in healthy ways.
- Feel Confident: Stop second-guessing yourself and enjoy sex again.
Sex-Positive & Stigma-Free: No judgment, no shame—just honest conversations.
Led by Dr. Michael Stokes: A Licensed Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist with years of experience helping men integrate mental and sexual health.
Why men work with Mister Health
Boston-Based, Statewide Access: Virtual sessions make counseling available to men anywhere in Massachusetts.
Therapy Designed for Men: We understand how sexuality intersects with identity, confidence, and relationships.
Mister Health provides virtual men’s counseling statewide, including:
Boston • Worcester • Springfield • Cambridge • Lowell • Brockton • Quincy • Lynn • New Bedford • Fall River • All of Massachusetts
Imagine sex without shame
That’s what ADHD counseling can help you build.
Picture this: going into intimacy without performance anxiety. Talking openly with your partner about what you want. Feeling confident in your body, your desires, and your identity. Enjoying sex not as a source of stress, but as a source of connection and pleasure.
Virtual counseling for men across Massachusetts.
198 Tremont St, Boston, MA 02116
(617) 7-MISTER hello@misterhealth.com
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