Deadlines pile up. Projects go unfinished. Relationships feel strained because you forget things, interrupt, or check out mid-conversation. You try harder, work longer hours, download every productivity app out there… but it still feels like you’re underperforming in areas you know you should excel in.

More than “just distracted”

ADHD Counseling for Men in Massachusetts

You’re smart. Driven. Capable.

But no matter how hard you push, focus keeps slipping through your fingers.

What ADHD looks like in men

The result?

Constant frustration, stress, and self-doubt.

It’s ADHD.

For men across Massachusetts this isn’t laziness or lack of willpower 

Difficulty focusing on tasks, especially ones that feel boring

Starting multiple projects, finishing few

Chronic procrastination followed by last-minute panic

Impulsivity in conversations, spending, or decision-making

Struggles with patience in relationships

And it often goes undiagnosed until adulthood.

ADHD doesn’t just look like the “hyperactive kid in class.” In adult men, it often shows up differently:

Feeling restless, always needing stimulation

Trouble managing time and staying organized

Forgetting important details (birthdays, bills, meetings)

ADHD often fuels anxiety, depression, and low self-worth.

Mental Health

Feeling “lazy,” “stupid,” or “broken” when you know you’re not.

Self-Confidence

Relationships

Work & Career

It’s not just about focus

Missed deadlines, disorganization, or “potential not reached.”

Partners frustrated by forgetfulness, impulsivity, or emotional reactivity.

The cost of ADHD in men

It’s about how untreated ADHD can chip away at your sense of capability and control.

Left unmanaged, ADHD takes a toll in every part of life:

Why men struggle to get help for ADHD

Most men were never told they might have ADHD. Instead, they were labeled as “unmotivated,” “careless,” or “not living up to their potential.”

So as adults, they:

  • Work twice as hard just to keep up

  • Hide struggles with humor or perfectionism

  • Dismiss ADHD as “something kids have”

  • Beat themselves up instead of seeking support

The truth? ADHD isn’t a character flaw. It’s a brain wiring difference—and with the right strategies, men can turn it from a liability into a strength. back.

Master Focus

Tools to cut through distractions and finish what matters.

How counseling helps men with ADHD

request an appointment

At Mister Health, we don’t just give you another checklist you won’t use. We teach practical, real-world strategies that work with the way your brain actually functions.

Through ADHD counseling, men across Massachusetts learn to:

Manage Impulsivity

Rebuild Confidence

Boost Productivity

Harness your energy instead of fighting it.

Stop beating yourself up and start recognizing your strengths.

Structure Time

Build systems that actually stick, without feeling rigid.

Learn how to pause and choose better responses.

Strengthen Relationships

Improve communication, patience, and trust.

Private & Convenient: No waiting rooms. No judgment. Just support that works.

Led by Dr. Michael Stokes: Licensed therapist specializing in men’s mental health, with years of experience helping men manage ADHD and thrive.

Why men choose Mister Health

Boston-Based, Statewide Access: Virtual sessions available anywhere in Massachusetts.

Therapy Built for Men: Straightforward, practical, and stigma-free.

request an appointment

Mister Health provides virtual men’s counseling statewide, including:

Boston • Worcester • Springfield • Cambridge • Lowell • Brockton • Quincy • Lynn • New Bedford • Fall River • All of Massachusetts

Imagine this instead

That’s what ADHD counseling can help you build.

You wake up with a plan—and actually follow through. You focus during meetings instead of zoning out. You finish projects before the last-minute scramble. Your partner notices you’re more present, more reliable, more you.

hello@misterhealth.com
(617) 7-MISTER / (617) 764-7837